Photo Credit: iStock. By Melissa Lafsky. The rest of spa culture, meanwhile, is dominated by women. There are more than 14, spas in the U. With all that time spent around low lighting, soft music, and heavy rubbing, it can be tough not to think of sex. And with competition among spas getting ever more intense, customers are starting to demand more than just Enya and free herbal tea with their Shiatsu, according to massage therapists.
Names have been changed to protect the less-than-innocent. The answer is that they can and do, though the logistics can get complicated. He started slowly touching my thigh, then going higher, and it turned into a game of how far each of us would take it.
One thing led to another and he ended up finishing me off, which was great. My nipples got erect, so that must have sent him a signal. He started rubbing me on the pressure points around my hips. I was wearing bikini bottoms, and he never actually touched my clitoris or vagina; it was just all around the area. He ended up being so hot. I was turned on the whole time, but nothing happened. Then I went back two weeks later. I was on my stomach while he massaged my back, and when I turned around, topless, we started making out.
But when I went back a third time, we ended up having sex in the massage room. After that, we started dating. Every state save Nevada and Rhode Island considers prostitution illegal, and in some states it can lead to months of jail time.
Also upping the ante is the gray area surrounding sexual assault, generally defined as nonconsensual touching of the genital area. So how hard is it to find that perfect massage combination of chemistry, timing, setting, and mood? I hit the massage tables to find out.
